The Magic of Therapy

A blog about the transformational power of psychotherapy and how it helps us blossom into the wholesome being we are.

How to ask my partner for what I want or need.
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How to ask my partner for what I want or need.

Click on the picture to see a video of me right out of a successful session with a woman who’s struggling with being vulnerable and giving her husband “another chance”.

In her eyes, she’d just be setting herself up for disappointment, yet again. After our conversation, it was very clear to her where her “people pleasing” was coming from and how she wasn’t given her husband the real chance she wants to give him.

Most importantly, she came out of the session with an experiential understanding that she matters and there shouldn’t be any shame in putting her needs first. This was not about giving her husband a chance, but giving herself the chance.

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What Is Racial Trauma?
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What Is Racial Trauma?

Unfortunately, there are still severe consequences for being a person of color in the United States. Both systemic racism and individual bias make being a non-white person in this country more difficult than it should be. 

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How to Deal with Grief and Loss
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How to Deal with Grief and Loss

It is hard to understand the effect that grief and loss can have until you experience the loss of something or someone particularly important. The experts at Psych Blossom say that you can be sympathetic to others who are experiencing grief, but until you go through it yourself, it can be very difficult to really comprehend what it feels like.

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The Impact of Life Transitions on Mental Health
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The Impact of Life Transitions on Mental Health

A life transition is any type of change in life that affects it in a big way. Life transitions occur throughout our lives, even when we are very young. For example, think about the massive impact that going to school can have on a young child.

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How to Be Sure Social Anxiety Doesn't Get to Run Your Life
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How to Be Sure Social Anxiety Doesn't Get to Run Your Life

As someone whose work focuses heavily on depression and anxiety therapy, I have a lot of opportunity to work with people struggling with social anxiety. Their struggles make it difficult to interact with friends and family in social situations.

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Coping with Anxiety and Depression During the Holidays – Part 1
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Coping with Anxiety and Depression During the Holidays – Part 1

Enjoying the annual holiday season can be challenging if you deal with anxiety or depression. You might generally want to feel the joy and happiness that everyone around you seems to so freely embrace. But for you, the holidays just aren't everything you wish they were. We want you to know that your holidays can be better.

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Is There a Right or Wrong Way to Cope with Grief and Loss?
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Is There a Right or Wrong Way to Cope with Grief and Loss?

Grief and loss are part of the human experience. The thing is that people deal with them in different ways. If the way you cope with grief and loss doesn't fit what others think it should look like, you may find yourself questioning whether you are 'doing it right'. Well, you can take comfort in the fact that there is no right or wrong way to cope with grief and loss.

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What Relationship Therapy Can and Cannot Do
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What Relationship Therapy Can and Cannot Do

Relationship therapy is one of the many services we provide here at Psych Blossom. It can take many forms. We counsel married couples struggling with tough times. We also work with romantic couples who aren't married.

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How to Approach Family Conflict as a Way to Do Better
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How to Approach Family Conflict as a Way to Do Better

In the make-believe world of Hollywood films and television shows, perfect families abound. Nothing ever goes seriously wrong to the extent that it cannot be patched up before the story ends. But that's Hollywood. In the real world, family conflict is to be expected.

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Life Transitions Are Scary – It's Okay to Be Afraid
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Life Transitions Are Scary – It's Okay to Be Afraid

Change is a part of life. And with so many changes, there is transition involved as well. That change from parenting minor children to launching them into adulthood requires a significant transition. And that is just one example. Know this: life transitions can be scary. It's okay to be afraid.

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